Have you ever thought about the friendship color spectrum?
We all have different types of friends. I decided to list a few spectrums. This is a ‘no judgement‘ zone. Spectrums aren’t meant to be derogatory just a way that friends are categorized.
Lets five right in to some SPECTRUMS.
Playful
. Laughs and jokes all the time in any situation. They are considered the life of the party. When you’re feeling down, you can always call them.
Serious
. When you they speak, their face is stern but doesn’t really affect you because your “know” your friend. To strangers, they are considered a serious person because they never smile. Smiling to them is considered silly ands to be taken serious cause for serious facial expressions. It’s okay with you because you “know’ your friend.
Mysterious
. Their facial expressions are always the same. It doesn’t matter if you're at a comedy show or watching a silly movie. In the back of your mind, you’re thinking they want to laugh so you laugh for them. They stare and you move to the next conversation. You “know” your friend.
Knowledgable
. They're always sharing useless knowledge. You're wondering how do they know all they know. They ready and constantly search the internet. You listen and possible gain something yourself. Sometimes, you start a conversation because you know they will probably answer a question before it’s even asked. Seriously, you “know” your friend.
Business
. The conversation of work will always come up. You don't roll your eyes because its not a bad thing. You listen to their acronyms while smiling because you have no idea what they are talking about. It all sounds so interesting so you don’t complain. You still enjoy their company. You “know” your friend.
Eating Restrictions
. They don’t eat everything or they are on a diet plan this week. I am seriously, just eat today and restrict tomorrow. Going out to eat or inviting them over is like “too hard”. You find a way to work it out because you “know” your friend.
A friend may fall under multiple spectrums but hit one spectrum most of the time.
At first, I considered this to be silly but actually we do have a colorful spectrum of friends which is not a bad thing. A variety is good.
What category would you fall in?
I’ll go first. Eating Restrictions, of course. I want to say thank you for being my friend!
Thanks for stopping by,
Arica
@whitwithcolor